Interesting article i came across haha.

"11 Signs He’s Not Headed Towards a Relationship With You .

This happens a lot: you’re dating someone consistently and he seems to really like you, but you get the feeling he’s not gunning for a committed relationship. So what are the specific signs that this guy—as pleasantly as things are going—does NOT plan to stick around long-term? I’ve seen the signs a million times, but just to confirm my suspicions, I asked an actual guy named Mike what he tends to do when he doesn’t plan to end up in a relationship with someone he’s dating.

Here are 11 telltale signs:
1. He texts instead of calls, or he texts more often than he calls. When a guy likes a girl, he wants to hear her voice. “Texting is not an easy way to communicate—it’s an easy way to avoid communication,” says Mike.

2. He finds reasons to blow you off or be late more times than not. Maybe he’s just flaky or disorganized, you say? Don’t make excuses. If a guy likes you and wants to continue hanging out with you, he’ll find a way to do so. Adds Mike: “I’ll come in to work 1 hour early if I want to get off in time to pick up cooking ingredients for a dinner date with someone I like.”

3. He talks to his ex-girlfriends. Nothing makes a guy forget his ex like a girl he wants to be with. If he continues talking with an ex, that’s the first sign that he’s either not over a prior girlfriend or he’s just not that into you.

4. He avoids introducing you to his friends. He should be proud of you, want to show you off, and want to include you in his life.

5. He avoids even minor instances of intimacy in public. “Listen, not all guys are comfortable with PDA. Not everyone likes to make out for the whole world to see. But when I really like someone, no matter what I’m generally comfortable doing, I’ll at least put my arm around her and give her a kiss on the cheek.”

6. He doesn’t use the pronoun “we” or use it in the future tense. If he talks about a great new restaurant he discovered, but doesn’t add, “We should go there sometime”—and maybe he just says “I go there a lot”—then he’s not interested in sharing things with you. Plus: “Guys who are into girls want to explore with them—not sit on the couch on every date,” says Mike.

7. He doesn’t do something sweet for you at least once a week. That doesn’t mean he’s buying you a dozen roses but he should have said or done something that made you go “Aw!” in the last seven days.

8. He doesn’t ask questions about your family and friends.

9. He doesn’t initiate at least 80% of the things you do together. “I call this the 80/20 rule,” explains Mike. “When I don’t like a girl, the 80% drops significantly. I’m not even aware of it. I’ll get off the phone and never close the conversation with a set of plans.” Note that it doesn’t have to be exact plans, but it should at least be, “Let’s hang out later this week and we’ll do dinner. I’ll call you tomorrow.”

10. He doesn’t remember your one month anniversary.

11. He hasn’t posted a picture of you together on Facebook within two months of the first date. Guys who are excited about you will post and tag your beautiful face!

Okay, hopefully I didn’t depress you. But the message here is, if you want a relationship with someone and he’s acting out the above list, move on. I don’t believe in “waiting it out” or “breaking him down” so he will “come around.” Don’t put up with someone who semi-likes you. Date someone who is dying to be with you. (You will find him—but you have to know you deserve it!!)

Credits: http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2010/10/11-signs-hes-not-headed-toward.html


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Soyu (Sistar)- Should I Confess [Playful Kiss OST]


Playful Kiss episode 15, i'm dying just waiting for it to upload D:
The suspense is killing me HAHA-.-
By far, last part of episode 13 is like the most epic best scene of Playful Kiss hoho. The romantic kiss Seung Jo gives Ha Ni under the heavy rain and telling her that she could only like him and noone else, AWWWWW♥
Kept replaying that scene ROFL xD

Oh by the way, my wardrobe expanded once again yesterday. ♥
Money can never be enough, just like no amount of apparels is enough for ladies hee :P

I really need someone better, to appear in my life right now.


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"Shopping spree/Ladies' Night ❤

Ladies day-out with Ginia and Doreen yesterday!
10/10/10, oh what a special day :D
Oh the funny moments (to us anyway if you, yes you who are reading this, don't find it funny hee), made us laugh so hard xD
I am a giggly sort of person i realize haha-.-
Met the girls, 11am. Oh, my bad time management habits are back.
I met them ten minutes later X:
Trained to Orchard, shopped at 313. Bought a top and hair accessories from New Look.
Went Orchard Cineleisure, a pushcart were selling huge size posters.
I immediately spotted Baek Seung Jo of Playful Kiss.


Went gaga but figured i couldn't be travelling around with that huge a poster haha-.-
Bought a magnetic set of earrings from one of the shops.
One side dropped off less than an hour later-.-
We were having lunch at Xin Wang Hongkong Cafe, i wore it all along till it dropped when i think i was combing my hair.
I was like oh my god, what if i ate it with my spaghetti or drank it down with my milk tea HAHA. Hopefully not, we didn't find it on the floor round our seats X:
Just kidding! The girls asked me if i felt something hard when i was eating, which i did not hee.
I replied, if i did i will see a purple glow (The earrings looked like sapphire purple studs) in my tummy x-ray lol! Wait a minute, we don't see colours in x-ray, do we? Ah whatever, hee.

#Funny Moment 1

We wanted to take a snapshot of what we were having for lunch. We were so busy, arranging the drinks, the plates on the table. G was most busy, she was arranging and then adruptly stood up to get the chopsticks at the far end of the table to arrange the spring rolls even HAHA. I mean, it really was funny. D and i laughed till our faces went red
Went Far East as well, bought more hair accessories.
Oh by the way, i'm into ribbon clips these days. No idea why, i'm just fond of it now haha. I have near 10 different ribbon hair accessories at home lol. Aimlessly walking around, then we pass by a stylish and classy hair salon.
Then i was staring at the guy who was styling a lady's hair. He met a typical korean guy's standards
- the fair and smooth complexion
Oh, and his fashion taste ain't bad and was wearing a fake geeky black glasses.
I sort of involuntarily make a 'woah' sound when i saw him. (HAHA, i sounded like a stalker-.-)

#Funny Moment 2
G: 你们两个，干吗一直看那个男的？他有那么好看？
Me: 不然，没有看我一直看他meh。
D: 没有lor，我在看他弄那女的头发。
Me: Aiyo, if she wants to deny then let her be HAHA.
G: Haha,做人要敢做敢当, like Reine!
Me: Yah, 我很敢当,我很敢当. Lol, like i'm kantang? (potato in teochew)

#Funny Moment 3
Walking the streets of Orchard. We were talking about guys driving stylish cars. Was talking about guys driving convertibles being the coolest. I said i would chase after the guy, when coincidentally a grey convertible drove past on the road rofl.
Me: Oh my god, EH! (frantically pointing at the grey convertible lol.)

Enjoyed ourselves(:


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Yet another shopping spree with GGGGGinia today! ♥
My wardrobe expanded (like really) last week. Oh sadly, not today.
Bought shoes instead!
And a bangle, plus ribbon hair accessories(:
Read a book that really suits me.
"That moment. That instant when your fingers curl around the handles of a shiny, uncreased bag and all the gorgeous new things inside it becomes yours.....everything else is blocked out of your mind. It's pure, selfish pleasure " - Sophie Kinsella's Confession of A Shopaholic (HAH.)
And i finally do realise. People were right, i really do have an amazing appetite. Proves itself today.
Imagine, bowl of rice, a plate of oh so yummy soft shell crab, small bowl of chawan
mushi, miso soup, a cup of my favourite root bear, a cup of hot
chocolate, a cup of cappuccino and one cup of mocca plus 4 servings of
icecream all in a day's lunch at Just Acia. BEAT THAT HAHAHA!
I probably win some eating contest or beat some sumo appetite HAH! Omg, downright lame-.-
Oh great, i'm actually proud of my humongous appetite=.=

Wow, look at the time!
Hitting the beds.
Till then! (:


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Jason Derulo- What If

What if?
What if I'm the one for you?
And you're the one for me?
What if...

If you are the one
Then us meeting here is fate
Future with a dog named Ben
Buy a house with a fireplace
This is the first I've seen your face
But there's a chance we are soul mates
I know this might sound crazy
Cause you don't know my name

[Chorus]
But we can't
We can't tell
The future no
The first kiss, the beauty of the world we know
So Imma say duuuduuu duuuduuu duuudu duuudu
Baby, what if
We all can say duuuduuu duuuduuu duuudu duuudu
Baby, what if

What if [6x]

Picture me on one knee
With the perfect diamond ring
We just met, but if you say "yes"
We'd have our wedding on the beach
It could happen, raise three kids
And we grow old so happily
I know this might sound crazy
Cause I don't know your name

[Chorus]

Don't know what tomorrow brings
But i'm still hoping
That you are the one for me
Oh and what if I had you and what if you had me and
Baby, what's the reason we can't fall in love?
What if
What if
What if

[Chorus x2]


Ohoh, by the way..HAPPY CHILDREN'S DAY!
Still don't think i'm too old for that HAHAHA :P


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